this is the last time
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Ok so this is the last time I will write I promise....
I have been writing about the same guy since the begging of Nov. I feel like I am going to be answering my own question by the end of this but here goes...
So I have been "talking" to this guy for about two months maybe less.... We have had sex a few times and hung out with out having sex a few times...He doesnít call when he says he will and it usually is 2-3 days without talking or maybe a text here and there. He is 25 and I would think that if he liked me he would call me more and take me out to dinner. I always say to myself to just forget about him and there are plenty of fish in the sea. And then he calls me and makes up some crap about being busy and not having time.. It takes 2 seconds to pick up the phone and say hey sorry cant talk right now but just wanted to say hi! When we are together he is so much fun we laugh and cuddle and it is great but then I donít hear from him. I just want to move on but I am afraid once I do he will be all over me.. Which he seems to be doing now like once he feels like he has me he lets go and then when he feels like I am slipping away he pulls me back in... Help me decide what I should do.. PLEASE...
Tell him how you feel and ask for an explanation.
It isn't fair for him to treat you this way. Let him know what you expect of him if you are going to feel good about the relationship. He should be able to call even for a five minute call. If he can't ask him what is the problem?
If he can't give you a straight answer then it would be a good idea to let him go.
Good luck and Happy New Years! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com