am i being too paranoid?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
hey, i think i'm bisexual but still confused i met this bisexual discreet male and he says to his friends that i am his partner and the like... thing is we only met through the net and we havent seen each other personally except in pictures... the pictures are real (certified)... we've been talking on the phone and the like... he seems nice and eager to know me... his friend, a girl, always talks to me and the like, and i always ask about him... like... "hey, whats he doing?," "hey, is he ok?" and some other related questions that i ask often... i asked the girl if he asks about me... she said not really... he's been hanging around with his friend, a boy. we lost communication for about 2 weeks because they're phoneline was down.. so now i told the girl... (FYI, the girl is the bridge for me and the guy...) "hey, i think im going to stop calling you because he might think i'm head over heels for him (and i dont want him to think that way).. the fact that he isnt looking for me all the more backs my reason up. i'm only going to talk to you two if you two will initiate the conversation..." i told her not to tell him... (i know and trust her that she wouldnt...) am i right? or am i just paranoid?
Either he is playing hard to get or he isn't very attracted to you.
Give it more time and see what develops. Continue talking with the go-between since that is a good form of communications.
Hope this works out for you.
Good luck and Happy Holidays! George
-- from George
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