G/F still won't reply or give closure. Not a word
Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Male
Hi I contacted you a few weeks ago. My g/f thought wrongly that I was 2 timing her, which is plain stupid. I think the world of her. Just to summarise, she is married to an estranged husband, has a child, could only see her one night a week, lunchtimes and 2 whole days a week. She walked out one evening and has never said a word at all. I sought your advice and you suggested sending her chocolates and flowers. Well sent her a red rose and a written note, assuring I did not cheat and asked her if she would like dinner. No reply. I have had a text from her but in response to my car being vandalised. The Police obviously take into consideration exe's especially when a hammer is used, i.e. intent and all that. Anyhow she did respond saying that I obviously didn't know her at all.But a couple of hours later she was no longer suspect being an ex, and told her by text. She has been reading my texts though. Its now 5 weeks since our split. Now I am considering sending a final text to say 'Would you prefer I never texted or ever contacted you ever again? OK its 5 weeks now hint hint etc, but its so difficult when she simply won't communicate not one word, and of course no closure. Otherwise do you have a suggestion to writing a final text which might at least get a response? I have never pleaded, begged etc. I have said its a shame we are where we are, tried to explain the situation etc. I have tried to explain some events which were not talked about at the time, and asked her three times, would you like to talk? Nothing absolutely nothing.
Tell her you still love her.
Ask if you could see her one last time with her daughter at a nice restaurant so you can say good bye if it has to be that way.
Reaffirm that you never cheated on her or degraded her in any fashion.
If she still won't reply, then dump her and forget her.
Happy Holidays! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com