I miss him and we still say I love you.what do i do?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I dated this guy for a year and a half, and lets just say it I didnt do enough to keep it goin.Within the last 2 months of our relationship I tried so hard to stay with him but I failed.He decided he wnated to take a break...just for a couple of weeks.I gave him 5 months and im still waiting, He is in College and is around alot of college girls.So im constantly worried.the last 3 days we were together he cheated on me because of his dad's "willingness" to get him away from me.His dad didnt like me much for 1 he had heard from alot of prople that I had cheated on him, and so did everyone else.Which is not true at all, everyone of his friends that I turned down told him I cheated on him.
I do admit I made it seem a little fishy not taking him to any parties with me and I did tell him little lies about where I was going cause I knew he would get mad.I guess you can say Im the one who tore us apart.we have been trying to work things out but he says he doesnt want a girlfriend right now but he still loves me and wants me in his life.but its so hard for me to just be his friend,I know he still cares because he always asks me where I was and who I was with.also what other guys I have been "getting with" which he knows bugs me.so naturally I do it back and we end up in an argument.I love him so much and I dont know what I would do without him, but im so confused on what to do and I think he is too.Please help me, I really dont know where to go from here.I want him back and ill do anything.
The last time you wrote in here you said you cheated on your b/f a lot and that you still wanted to do it more.
This time you are basically saying that you didn't cheat. I would believe the first story.
If you really want a true love with him you need to tell him the whole truth even if it splits you up for good. Because if you don't tell him now it will catch up with you later and cause more pain. If you tell him now there is a chance he will forgive you and a chance that you will find true love.
While it is scary to tell the truth, that is my advice.
Happy Holidays! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com