How can I get him back?

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I met a guy back in march and we had this amazing spark. He confided in my friend that he had never felt this way about anyone else before. I felt the same way. I had never been happier in my life. We dated for a wile and one night when we went out to our local dive I took some extacy. He told me it was ok with him as long as I didn't try to get him to do it. He lied! I caught him later that night giving his number to another girl. He was very drunk and we sat down privately to talk. He told me he had lost all respect for me for doing drugs. He also said that he just wanted to be friends. We spent that night together and in the morning he hugged and kissed me and told me he was sorry. But he never said that he didn't just want to be friends and I didn't ask. We still spent time together as usual but I started dating other people to make him jelious. I didn't hide the other people from him either. One night he left and he never came back or called again. Nor would he recieve my calls. I know this is a stupid question but what happened? And how can I possably get him back if I can? Help me! This crushed me and I feel like I lost the best thing that ever happened to me. Advice
I suppose he got the idea that you didn't care for him anymore.

You were dating other guys and you didn't ask him about your relationship.

My advice is to make contact somehow and ask him if it is ok for you to call him once a week just to catch up on how each other is doing. A cheerful 15 min chat with no talk about your relationship.

If he goes for this then there is a chance that your attraction will burn again. I hope so.

Happy Holidays! George

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