i want to break up with him, but i dont know how
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
this guy asked me out a couple days ago. at school we barely talk and when we hangout its just really akward. i dont like him as more of a friend, but i dont know how to tell him.we've only been going out for a couple of days so i feel that its not fair to him. and with his friend, its the total opposite. we always talk, he's way outgoing but ive had something with him before. i think it could have worked if the first guy didnt ask me out. how can i let the first guy, down gently but still be friends with both of them. or should i just keep seeing the first guy?
My advice is to tell your current b/f that you only like him as a friend.
Tell him soon because you don't want to tell him on Christmas Eve or Christmas Day. Or if you feel like it, tell him between Christmas and New Year's.
It will be difficult to move from this one boy to another, but you can do it if that's what you want.
Be gentle of everyone's feelings.
Happy Holidays! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com