confused and trying to get him back
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
ive known my ex for 5 years now goin on 6 we were friends for a long time and then this past year we got together well we totally fell in love with eachother and he lived with me and i took care of him. we were really good together and not only did we see that but everyone else did to. we broke up a few months ago and we still love eachother. we are still friends and i have done the patient waiting even though it is really hard on me. and i have even tried to be with someone else but i couldnt do it cause my heart wouldnt let me. we have been together intimately since we have broken up and he got with a girl for a while and they broke up alot and he came back to me each time, we even went out of town together to his family reunion he introduced me to family that i didnt know yet as his girl. we realized more and more that weekend how we felt about eachother. they broke up for good now and he still tells me how much he loves me. he has also told me before that he didnt feel i met his maturity level yet. my questions arent does he love me because i know for a fact that he loves me, and cares about me. and i know our love isnt just as friends. and he knows how i feel about him. and i dont call him he calls me. my question is how am i to go about this. ive been engaged before and everything but i still have never loved anyone as much as i love him. i really want us to be able to get another chance at this. how do i get us that chance? please help me. im lost when it comes to this. he's my best friend and the love of my life and im just ready for him to come home.im 18 and he is 21.
It seems that you two are in love but can't make it happen.
My advice is to have long gentle talks about how he finds you too immature for him. This is the only matter that seems unresolved.
Once you get more details, work very hard at appearing more mature to him.
Happy Holidays! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com