Mixed Signals, Player, Interested? I Have'nt A Clue.
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I met this lad a good 6 months or so ago, but felt I wanted to get to know this lad in a lot more detail, as well as eseentially "get with" him. Essentially lust at first.
As of the last two months, I've been spending a lot of time with him over the weekends, mostly frequenting aforementioned clubs and gig, socialising with other people. His friends like me as far as I know.
Good signs such as holding my hand to get me through a crowd of people.Helping me down stairs and over fields when I look a little unsteady on my feet (general 'walking me home cause he wants to' stuff. we have a lot of common interests, and he shows interests in what I do. Has no problem with slight signs of public affection. When having sex, it's slightly changed from the 'raw passion' to something slower, more kissing me on the forehead, and not trying to wrack my brains out. Call's me beautiful, even when I've been crying.
But he does seem to mention girls a lot of the time, girls that he'd like to get with, and one particular girl he was once obbsessed with, although he has apologised from mentioning her. I know he is'nt secure with relationships, and he's regarded as a player.
I don'nt know how to read this, as I dont want to scare him off.
If he's a player, he is going to be hard to read.
So my advice is to continue the way you are with him and see how things develop. This way you won't scare him off.
So far he sounds like a nice person, enjoy him as long as you want to.
Happy Holidays! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com