She's too secretive

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
I have been dating this girl for almost six months. From day one she's always been a little secretive. There are some things about her past she just will not tell me. Furthermore, i have to ask her how her day was and what she's been doing, but she never asks me. She tells me how she cares about me so much more than i care about her, but I'm the one who treats her better, acts more interested, and says "I love you" more. I'm just wonerding what I can do to get her to open up more and figure out how she thinks I don't care about her as much when I clearly do. Thank you very much for reading this.
-A very confused boyfriend Advice
Explain to her just what you wrote me.

In fact, print it out if you still have it and give it to her.

If you can't or don't want to do that then tell her that you need more communication between you two. Show her how to do it by telling her what happened to you that day. Maybe she'll get the idea.

Good luck! George

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