Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Ok, this girl i like has had a boyfriend for a year now. This boy she is dating happens to be a friend of mine and a co-worker. She also works at the same job. When she first started, i told this guy that i thought this girl was very beautiful, and that i really liked her. So behind my back, he goes and asks her out and she says yes. So they dated for what seemed like forever, but was actually like 8 months. At one point of time, she told me that she heard i was dating someone when she first started at this job. She then went ahead and dating my friend because she thought i was in a relationship, in which i wasnt. We became very close friends. But when someone spied on us, they told my friend and he told her that she couldnt text me or hang out with me anymore. So we have only seen eachother when we have worked on the same day. About a week ago, they were having some problems. He was treating her very meanly, like he wanted her to break up with him. She went out to hang with another guy friend, and ended up having a movie moment with him, made out with him - which qualified as cheating. She told him and they broke up. The only were apart for two days. She told me she was going to quit the job and work somewhere else since the manager was the cousin of my friend. She told me she would probably break up with this guy, because he deserved much better than her. I dont think he deserves her at all. She is a much better person than him. She told me she loved me, that my love was special to her. She tells me she wants to be with me, that im hot, and that i have the greatest body ever...etc. But yet she still is staying with this guy. I dont think they are going to break up very soon. I dont think i can wait on her forever...and i cant find anyone else that makes me feel the same way as she makes me feel. So what do i do?
There's not much you can do.
She's still going out with this guy who is your friend.
If they break up it seems like she wants to get together with you.
About all you can do is wait.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com