I want him back so badly
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
My boyfriend and i had been together for a year and a half straight, before that we were on and off for 2 years. He has been living with me and my family for a year of the year and a half, Last week he moved out. And now i want him back. He says he wants his freedom back. He is really stubborn and headstrong so its so hard to make him realise we can still be together and he will get his freedom. As he will because he lives at his mums now and im with my mum, so he wouldnt be with 24/7 like he used to. He says he isnt breaking up with me so he can go find other girls and i believe him. Now he is only accepting us being friends at the moment but i want more than that and i need to prove to him we can still work before we lose interest in eachother. im running out of time. He is 21 and i am 18
It's only been a week since he moved out.
So, you are not running out of time... you have plenty of time.
Since you are friends, ask if you can call him once a week just to see how each other is doing. Be cheerful, keep the talk to 15 mins.
Thia way he will have the freedom he wants and you will have the contact you want.
My guess is that he will return with his tail dragging in the dirt and beg you to take him back.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com