What Do I Do?Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
My friend and his girlfriend have been dating for almost a year now. I have always liked her, but he asked her out first, knowing that i liked her. They seemed to have a good relationship. But i found out she and him have sex. And that's all he talks about when im with him. About all this sex stuff. She is a really good person, and i don't believe she needs to be with him if that's all her cares for out of her. He started treating her badly a few weeks ago. She couldnt take it any more. She started hanging out with another guy. She made out with him and cheated on my friend. They broke up that night. Two days later, they reunited. I've been waiting a long time to have a chance to have a relationship with her. She likes me alot. She claimed she loved me, but doesnt know anymore. I like her too much to let her go again. I need to do something, but dont know what to do. He doesnt know i still like her. He has no idea she still likes me. If they do break up with eachother, and i go out with her, what do i tell him. He's two times bigger than me, we all work at the same job....but she's fixing to quite. Do i keep it a secret. Do i just not tell him? What do i do?
As long as they are together there isn't much you can do.
Stay friendly with her and him too.
If they split up then make your play for her.
You might as well tell him since he's going to find out anyway.
Good luck! George
-- from George
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