what to do?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
ive been with my boyfriend for 3yrs and through all that time ive never really thought about someone else. the 3yrs hvnt been like perfect, weve fell out a few times but never for very long. however at the moment i dont see him as much as i used to as im in college and he works adn is busy a lot so i feel kindof detached. but now ive met someone else in college who i get on really well with and ive never thought about neone in this way and he feels the same. but ive only known him a month although it feels like more. im not sure if its jst that i see him more now but even so i still feel really strongly or at least i think i do or is it just infatuation- how do you know the difference?
You've had three years with your b/f and he deserves to hear this from you.
Tell him you've found someone and your both are attracted to each other. You may find that your b/f is also wants to try someone different.
The other way is to sneak around the back of your b/f and that's no goo.
Time will tell if it is infatuation.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com