What should I do?
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I am currently in a relationship with someone who is very good to me. We have been together for almost 2 years. I keep going back to my ex-boyfriend and having sex with him. I can't seem to shake him. I know if my current boyfriend finds out, he will be very hurt. It seems that I have no peace! Everytime I build myself up to break things off with my ex, I end up at his house. He says he loves me and wants to be with me, but he wants me to be okay with him seeing other women all the other negative things that come with being with him. He knows that I will not accept those things and is the reason we are not together right now. I know he will end up hurting me again if I get back with him, but I still can't let go of him. I love my current boyfriend and I don't what him to find out. I am looking for some positive advice on what to do about this situation.
You know your ex is a dead-end so dump him for good.
That will be in your best interests since it is bothering you. You should also consider telling your boyfriend what you have been doing. Otherwise you will have secrets which isn't good for any relationship.
Whatever might happen, you will feel better once you get out of this entanglement. Think positively.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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get rid of your ex
don't call him
Say goodbye to both