Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
A friend of mine hooked me up with this girl about 2 months ago. We started by going out to dinner a few times, then she started coming over to my place a few times a week. One night at my place it got late so I asked her if she would like to spend the night. She said yes. I am a gentelman so we did'nt do anything except hold eachother and fall asleep. Finally she invited me over to her place. We went out and ended up sleeping with eachother. Before, when we were just fooling around, she asked if I was comfortable. I explained to her that sex is something I regard pretty high and I only do with people I'm in love with, and that I think I'm pretty much there with her.Then I awnsered her question with a yes. During that weekend I pretty much laid it all out to her that I have strong feelings for her. She likes to joke around with me and we have a lot of fun. We do have our serious moments but I think she trys to steer away from them though. I only get to talk to her about twice a week on the phone and only get to see her on the weekends. I don't know if I should try and have the serious talk with her or if it's to early and that will scare her away. She is perfect to me in every way, I would just like to know if she feels the same about me. I feel as though I've thrown myself into the street and I'm just waiting to get hit.
You really didn't tell her you loved her but danced around the edges of doing so.
When you have a serious moment ask her how she feels about you and remind her that you said you had strong feelings for her.
Hopefully she won't leave you hanging but give you some feedback.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com