Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I am a freshman in college and I like this boy who used to live on the same floor in my dorm. We never really spoke and I was having roommate problems. I decided after 2 weeks i was leaving the dorm. All of a sudden this boy realy didn't want me to leave and began talking to me, he invited me out with his friends one night to a party and was very nice. I still left but I try to talk to him. I will spend time with him and other friends at the same time but i will catch him staring at me. One day he randomly called me to see if I wanted to go to a party he was at. I unfortunatly didnt make it there and when I left him a message to call me next time he goes out he never responded and i havent spoken to him since. I feel like i blew my chance with him or that maybe he isnt all that into me. There is also this other girl he is friends with from home and it seems like they like each other because they seem to spend a lot of time together.My question really is should I go for him and hope he likes me?Or is it obv he doesnt and move on even tho i reaaaaaly like him.
My advice is to continue to try to contact him since he seems to like you.
None of what you said leads me to believe that he would respond negatively if you contacted him directly.
So call again and wait until sometime when he answers so you can talk with him.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com