i need help!!!
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Me and this guy were together for 3 years but then he had to move to get his life straight.Which I am glad he did this. Although,now he's seeing other people.I prepared myself for this when he left but now that i'm going threw it I can't stop all these emotions.He don't understand what i'm feeling.He sends me pictures of him and this girl.I'm so jealous!He still tells me he loves me and misses me.My feelings have got so involved.I kind of feel like I should let it go because it will be years before he comes back but at the same time I wanna talk to him still.Should I let someone go because i'm jealous and have to many feelings for him?We argue so much now.So should I just give up because I can't even control myself no more or should I keep talking to him?
You have made several good arguments for letting him go.
You and he argue a lot, he sees other girls. it's been a while since you were together, you feel jealous, your emotions are out of control, and you feel it will be years before he comes back.
Putting all this together, it would be a kindness to yourself and a great relief too if you could find some way to decide to let him go.
Think also, that you are sure to find another guy who is just as nice and perhaps even much better than your old b/f.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com