I want her back
Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Male
I was with my girlfrnd for about 9 months things were good but i had times were things were stressful in my life, as well as she did to. i recently went to new jersey for a week for an important matter that will better my future. when i got back she told me she didnt want to be with me anymore. I am 33 yrs old, she is 44yrs old with 2 young children. she split upm with her husband of 8 years because she found out he is not the "man" she thought he was. she told me with the holidays here it is difficult for her to make decisions who will be over for the holidays, me or her ex. i know its important for him to be with his kids(hes far from parent of the year). last week i went there to pick up a few things of mine and we got into a fight, i said some really bad things that i do regret deeply. but now she wont answer my calls, texts nothing. its been about 16 days since we broken up. i want her back because i know we are good for each other. but i dont know if i should keep fighting to get her back.
damn, what do i do? Thank you!!
This sounds like a "pressures of the Holidays" problem.
Somehow get a message to her that you won't be calling again until after Jan 1st (except for a Christmas present). Tell her that you don't want to put more stress on her than she already has.
Get her something really nice for Christmas and maybe she will call you to thank you.
Good luck! George
-- from George
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