Can I fix it?
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Hi I just wrote in about a week ago about this great new guy! You gave me great advice but I messed up really bad!!! Ok so we had been getting along really good and were enjoying getting to know each other well on Thanksgiving Eve I went out we were planning on meeting up at some point in the night. Well I ended up getting extremely drunk by the time I meet up with him I barley remember seeing him. This was after I had been flagged and kicked out of another bar. Well I do not remember the rest of the night. My friends told me I was very obnoxious and loud and mean. The next morning when I woke up I had no idea what had happened. I realized I did not have my phone my jacket or my Id. So I called the guy but it was early and thanksgiving and he didnít answer. I left a message saying I had lost my phone and just wondering if he knew where it was and that I was sorry if I did anything bad last night for him to call me back or I would cal him later. So I ended up calling him and leaving him another message apologizing again still have no idea what it was that I did that pissed him off. Eventually got my phone back through a mutual friend. When I got it back I sent him a text saying that I had got my phone back and to please let me know if I did anything to make him mad. I finally got a response and he said, "Just didnít expect you to act the way you did and say the things you said. I will give you a call later". Well that was Thursday night. Well I never got a call so a text him I just apologized best that I could asking him to let me make it up to him. No response. I found out Friday night from a different mutual friend what exactly I had done. Which was call him horrible names in front of all of his friends and grab his arm and pull him into the corner just an all around mean drunk girl plus apparently I was falling allot. Then I would try and kiss him. I do not remember any of this. He told my friend that he would call me just not right now. He also said he was not sure what to do with me. That he just meet me and I was this crazy girl. I guess my question is will he? Do I have any chance with this guy? If he doesnít call me should I call him and apologize again maybe take him to dinner something to make up for it. I have never been this embarrassed in my life. Plus I really think I like this guy and would love to see what it could turn into. I never like this especially in front of new people. Where do I go from here?
You are on the right track by calling and apologizing.
No telling how he will respond since it depends on the person and also what all you might have done that night.
Asking him out for dinner is a great idea and I hope he accepts. Explain to him how embarrassed you are and sorry that it all happened.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com