why do i feel the way i feel?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
THERE IS THIS GUY NAMED LETS CALL HIM VINCENT WHO A LONG TIME AGO WENT OUT WITH A FREIND OF MINE. AND I DID LIKE HIM WHILE THEY WERE TOGETHER BUT SHE DID'NT KNOW NOR DID HE. WELL WE TALKED BUT NOT ALOT JUST LIKE HEY HOW HAVE U BEEN? HI AND BYE THINGS LIKE THAT. WELL IT HAS BEEN OVER A COUPLE OF YEARS SNICE I HAVE SEEN MIKE BUT ABOUT THREE WEEKS AGO I SEEN HIM AGAIN AT MY FRIENDS HOUSE... WELL WE MESSED AROUND AND HUNGOUT,TALKED WELL HE JUST GOT ARRESTED A WEEK HAVE WE MEET AGAIN. BUT KNOW I HAVE ALL THESE FEELING FOR HIM AND I DON'T KNOW WHY! HE IS "MY" SAVAGE WITH A SOFT HEART WHEN I AM WITH HIM I AM HAPPY AND CARE FREE, I FEEL SAFE LIKE NOTHING CAN TOUCH ME. ALL I DO IS THINK ABOUT HIM ALL I WANT IS TO LAY NEXT TO HIM AND HAVE HIM HOLD ME AND NOT LET GO. I WROTE HIM AND I TOLD HIM I LIKE HIM AND THAT I DON'T KNOW WHY AND I REALLY WOULD LIKE TO GET TO KNOW HIM BUT IT WAS UP TO HIM. BUT THE THING IS I AM SCARED OF THE WAY HE MAKES ME FEEL BECAUSE WE JUST STARTED TO GET TO KNOW EACHOTHER. CAN YOU HELP ME? I DON'T KNOW HAT ELSE TO DO OR WHO ELSE TO ASK.
TAHNKS A BUNCH:MISSING HIM
What you need to do is to get to know him better.
This will make you feel less overwhelmed by your feelings and find out whether this is a crush or something stronger.
To build a good relationship with him you should focus on communications (sharing information), compassion (sharing feelings), and affection (like compliments, hugging). All of this will draw you two closer together. If you discover that he can't participate in these activities then you should teach him or look for someone else.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com