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Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
i would like to say thank you for helping me out in my past post.The advice you gave me has helped me out alot and got me closer to her. Note that this girl is very friendly she hugs and high fives all her guy friends I don't know if you remember but you told me to hug her when i told you that i refused her hugs but today randomly when she mistaken my name for someone else she huged me but usally when she hugs me she would ask me and now all she does is hug me without asking. I can clearly understand that she is a friend and i know friends hug each other but how come she asked me out to prom. I know you told me to buy her flowers but i left out a huge fact. I collect nike sb shoes and she never had the interest of shoes and now she wants me to buy it for her. In p.e she was rubbing my leg and she told me can i shave your leg hair so that was werid and diverse to me. Then she asked me are u going to prom and i said yes so she asked me if i was going wity anyone but i said no. Then she joked around saying you should go with Amy (her friend) to prom then she told me she was just kidding around. Then after that she asks me will you go to prom with me and then says because this guy that i know he is a good friend and he likes me and also asked me out to the prom but i don't know how to tell him so can you go with me so its just an excuse. So i asked her to go with another guy friend then she tells me hes too short so i told her okay i will think about it. She also jokes around saying i ll go with you if you buy me a pair of nike sb shoes just kidding. Then the next day i go up to her asking her so are you still availabe to go to prom then she told me i never told you i will go with you i will only go with if you bought me a pair of shoes. Its award when she approaches me asking me and doing werid stuff to me she does it all at one time like the touching my leg, hugging me without asking me and asking me to prom. At first before she knew me all she did was a high five but now she is very close to me she touchs my arm, legs, and she pushs me when she is joking around while feeling my chest. Since i ve only known her for 4 months do you think she will get closer to me because every month since she first meet me she got closer and closer to me as time passes. Before she knew me she asked questions about me to her cousin and she told my friend that she likes my eyes since i got blue color eye contact on and at times she would just go up to me saying look at me and stare into my eyes because of my contacts i don't know if she is looking at my face or the contact. She thinks its cute when i say certain words because i mispronouce it. So can you help me figure out if me and her are just friends or does she like me because i really like her too and its been on my mind since the day she touched me.
She is a little out of control.
She is overly flirtatious and a little weird. But not really way out of the normal for girls flirting, just a little strong.
So, ask her seriously if she wants to go to the prom with you and if she mentions the shoes again say "oh I thought you were joking, I can't afford to buy you a pair of shoes." Then see what she says. That should tell you how she really feels about you. Make sure not to drop the discussion until you are 100% sure one way or the other about the prom.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com