Should long distance relationship be like this?
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Thanks for giving advice last time...Well I should start telling my story again. In short, I met American guy when I was student exchange there. Then, I came back home and we keep in touch via MSN for 6 months . He masturbated while he was talking to me.And because of your advice(you said it's not unusual) I feel better to talk to him about sex things. Although it seems weird for my Asian culture, I try to accept those as I just feel like him so much(not when he talk about sex). What I expect to talk to him is not just sex thing.I'm always happy everytime I have chance to talk to him and when he texts me messege. I really need to know him better in person. I sometimes still feel um...kind of unacceptable according to my culture. How can I get through this bad feeling and accept culture differences between the two of us. I would be very appreciated if u could help me.
Trust your own feelings. Your culture is important too.
If his behavior is bothering you, you need to tell him so. He probably won't like what you say and it may affect your relationship. But, you shouldn't place his feelings over your own.
Sometimes you will become accustomed to the habits of another with the passage of time. That is something you could also try.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com