Can't Figure it out!
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
My Boyfriend and I started dating in June 2005. He moved an hour away in Aug. 2005 to go to grad school. We loved each other so much it was perfect. In March 2006 we started having little fights about not seeing each other as much and different things. In August 2005 I went under his web page and discovered he was writing girls telling them they were cute and what not. I confronted him and he didnt remeber but the next day erased them all. In Oct.2006 we got into really bad and broke up for a month, chatting off and on. We got back together after a month because he thought I was with someone else and it was killing him. (Even though I was not) Well 3 weeks went by and here I am again, me getting a text from him saying I do not know what I want. So I ended saying I cant do this sh*t anymore it isnt gonna work and he never responded and we havent talked since. It has been a month now and we have not talked or seen eachother since. I will not call him I cant do that to myself. The thing is that I miss him really bad. I wish everything could be perfect like in the beginning. I think also at times I got mad because it wasnt my way or he couldnt see me that weekend and what not. He told me he loved me so much and we talked about marriage and everything. Why this and why now. Does he still love me? Does he miss me? Will he call? should I call him? What should I do or how can I get him back?
There's no telling without further evidence whether he still loves you or not.
My guess is that he doesn't since he hasn't called. Of course, you haven't called either and you miss him. You didn't say you loved him so perhaps that makes a difference in how you are responding to this.
True love would do anything to be with the other person so you would call him if you loved him.
You decide how much you love him and go from there.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com