Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Me & my boyfriend have been talking for four months and sometimes I feel like I care more about him...I always let him know that I care about him & he means alot to me...I always show him too that i mean everything I say...But im starting to feel "Unappreciated." He came home for thanksgiving...He left college for da holiday break...At first he told me that he wasnt comin home at all but he told his friends that he was. Then he told me he was comin home the tuesday before thanksgiving...Then when i asked him the other night was he comin home then or the following morning...He told me he wasnt coming home until thanksgiving day...Now I just found out that he's home and its tuesday. He hasnt even called to let me know...I dont understand why he not telling me the truth...I cant hold him to his word...And i thinks its stupid of him to just lie to me over something like dat.
He's walking all over you.
You need to put a stop to it. Let him know you expect the truth out of him at all times. But, it may be too late for that because lying often precedes a break up.
The last time you wrote you mentioned that he has been neglecting you. It may be that college life has taken over his mind. You have my best wishes because this is a troublesome time for you.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com