I dont understand him HELP!!!
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I have known this guy for 3 years and when we first met we got on really well, but it was a party and i got very drunk and got with his mate, at the time though we were just friends and he hadn't told me he liked me. Anyway we about an hour away so never see each other apart from when we're at the same campsite on holiday. WE text each other all the time and at xmas we had an arguement and he said he didnt want to talk to me anymore, so i left it. Next time we spoke was about 2 months later he said sorry for being harsh. THe next time i was at the campsite i saw him with his girlfriend so i didnt bother to speak to him or text. THen last week i text him asking how he was and since then we've been texting loads, hes no longer with his girlfriend he cheated on her!!! but anyway i've told him i really like him and i asked him if there would ever be a me and him and he said you dont know what the future holds??!! but since then he's been texting me dirty and i was very drunk so stupid me replied to them in the same context. THe next night he said how about a round two, so to wind him up i started then stopped, then last night i said i didnt do that sorta thing because he asked again. When i said no he said thats fine. He does ask me questions and seems interested, but im worried that i seem a tart after the other night and that he was just after some fun, i really want a relationship not a bit of text fun, is he worth it and i worry he cheat on me because he did on his ex girlfriend??? help me xxx ps im 17 and hes 19
He shouldn't think you are a tart because you didn't participate in the conversations very long and then said you aren't into that.
On the other hand, you should be worried about him. He cheated on his girlfriend and might do the same to you.
Plus you don't see him often and where is that going to lead? Probably nowhere.
My advice to you is to look nearer home for a boyfriend and let this one slide.
Good luck! George
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