I want my gf of 7 years back... help

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female

I have been with my girlfriend for almost 7 years… and everything crashed very fast. I need advice to get her back. It was heard that she lost feeling for me in September ( broke off in 2 october). I even presented a ring to her for engagement. She accepted it. Yes I admit in being possasive and hot tempered. Well she is calm and patient. We had many quarrels in the last few months, and it seems that she snapped at one of the quarrels, and then turn to think that the love for me is habitual.

I celebrated her birthday on this 14 nov and we had a long talk. She told me that she has no more feelings for me and wants freedom. She loves me as a friend. She say the reason why she is talking to me is she wants to help me get back on my feet ( as I was not myself after she broke up with me). I believe she has been asking my friends and sister how am I and what I have been up to. I asked her is there a chance to get back together, she said no. Not in the future as well. I am going crazy… During the talk, she asked me qns that only she will ask, friends would not ask. I want to get her back, what should I do… As I do not know what is really in her heart. Please help me. Thank you

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Since she is willing to talk with you to help you out, make an agreement to have regular phone calls or even meetings.

Be cheerful and don't discuss your relationship. Ask her if she would agree to dinner once a month as friends.

You have a shot at rekindling your romance by taking this advice.

Good luck! George

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