don't know how to get her back
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Well i broke up with my girlfriend 3 month ago. I was with her half a year and everthing was great. We spend a lot of time together and she said that im her first boyfriend and her first true love. Everything was great until we were at the frequency festival together because when we were back she behaved curious and then she suddenly she didn't even want to kiss me. she said she doesn't feel good and on the phone she told me that she isnt sure about us and she needed space. so i gave her the space. just after one day she said that she was sure to break up but cant go on without me and she gave us a second chance. 2 weeks later she finally broke up and said she doesn't know the reason. i first tried to get her back by promising her my love but then stopped. i didnt talk with her and when we met she hugged me like she still loves me but ignored me the next time. thats one month ago. last day she contacted me again.
i still want her back but dont know how. please help me...
You should try to get her back by asking her out for dinner and a movie.
This date would be just "as friends" and she should be willing to do it under those conditions. Of course, you feel more than just friends but you have to start with something she will find acceptable.
Be cheerful and don't talk about your relationship unless she does. You want to keep the date at a friendship level.
Maybe after seeing you again, she will start feeling what she did before.
Even if that falls through, continue to contact her just to see how she is doing and don't pressure her. You never can tell when she will start to feel different.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com