What should i do?
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
Me and my ex had been going out for 3years we movef in together last december, everything was going great told each other how much we loved each other and all that. then he moved to a different location in his job 2months ago. three weeks ago we split up but he still wanted to live together as he said if i go we wont ever see each other again, we have made no phsical contact during this time. he hasnt been home now for over a week we saw each other a couple of days ago and he asked me how it woz going and if ive found any one else then slipped in that he had snogged some else, which i diddnt react to. later that day i txted saying we need to work out our living together situation and he just ignores it. Then the next day i hear of a friend that he is to scared to come home because of me, i really would like to get back with him i love him, but why is he doing this to me and what reaction does he want to give him?
i dont txt or call him everyday i will ask how he is doing every couple of days but he ignores me
You asked why he is doing this to you.
Maybe he isn't trying to do something to you but just trying to live his life. It's only been three weeks now so it is really too early to figure out why he is doing anything.
A good thing to do would be to discuss all this with him but you are having trouble contacting him. Ask him out for dinner and see if you can make any progress there. Or if he has a favorite meal you can cook, try that.
Be cheerful toward him and supportive. He will appreciate that response and maybe be drawn back to you.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com