i dont know what to do
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
hi. there is this girl that i have liked for a while now, we were, in my opinion very close, and i even think she might have liked me too but i never reacted until now and i think she got tired of waiting. well i wrote her a note because i knew that she would not have the time to hear me say it in person. i pretty much told her that i like her and that i felt like we were growing apart this year. the next day i waited for her and told her to come here and talk she just said she had to go and i just asked if she read my note she said yes and i tried to get an answer but she said she had to go to soccer practice but that she would write me back later. the next day i waited for her again but this time i was talking to someone and while i was she just passed by without even saying a word and i said nothing too. i just thought to myself that maybe she just needed a little more time. well luckily that day was friday and we had a 3 day weekend so i thought that was plenty of time to get the note done, so i expected it on tuesday. well once again she didnt say a word to me and nor did i. it has been like this for about 2 or 3 weeks now. we have not talked since that note. i think i lost her as friend and its killing me, almost every day i walk past her and we dont say anything to each other and when we are in the same room its the same thing, its as though we dont even know each other. i want to talk to her so bad but i dont want to lose face or seem like a desperate guy and beg, like a kiss ass. i feel as though i fell in love with her please help me, did i do the right thing? should i have kept asking about the note?i feel like every day that we dont talk im losing her little by little and i dont want to lose her! please, please respond as soon as possible!!! thank you very much!
Write her another note.
Tell her you were disappointed that she never replied. Explain again how you have drifted even farther apart and that you would like to start saying hi to her in the hall again.
Give her your email address and ask her to reply that way.
Hopefully she will take advantage of this second chance and answer.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com