My Ex is Wit Her Ex
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
my senior year in highschool i met an amazing girl, she had a boyfriend but cheated on him with me, and we were together for what i beleive to be the greatest 8 months of my life, so last thursday she started thinking that she doesnt know what she wants in her life, friday we get into a fight about how she needs time and space, we fix everything, then she goes to work i bring her flowers and starbucks, she has her ex come to her work after i left, then she cancels sat coming over to my house cause she is working and sees her ex, sunday comes along and she again sees her ex and she then tells me that she wants to take a break and figure out what is right for her in her life, she cancels our dinner for friday for her bday on tuesday via myspace, (she didnt even have the guts to tell me she was hanging out with her ex friday) she told me in her myspace msg that she was working, my sister read this and she was out that way on thursday night and found out she didnt work at all so she lied to me about working so that she could see her ex. so i find out wednesday shes trying to get back together with him from her and all of her friends. All of her friends and family and everyone else including her said that she was never as happy with him as she was with me, so i break up with her and either wed nite or thursday her and her ex get back together
he has also been telling people that he is going to screw her before he leaves for the airforce next month, if he really wanted to get back with her why wait until one month beofe he leaves, why not earylier. do i just get over her, do i try and win her back, i really dont know what i should do
You should do what makes the most sense to you.
How strongly do you feel about her? This is not clear. If you are deeply in love with her then try to get her back. If you feel so-so about her then dump her and possibly she will come crawling back and you can decide whether to take her back or not.
Or you could just wait and see what develops.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com