Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
ok well so i have two friends (guys) who both happen to like me a lot. just this week, C emails me asking "do you like B? (just asking)" (B and C are SUPER best friends). i reply "as a friend, ya. anymore, no." C forwards the email to B saying "sucks for you, but maybe it could me?". i no this because B emails me saying "don't be mad at C but 1) ouch. 2) MEGA ouch i mean wow that is cold". it seems that C forwarded my email to B, and B forwarded that email to me. when C said "but maybe it could be me?" i know he means that he may be the guy i like. B and C have been trying to find out who i like all week and have been unsuccesful, considering i don't like anyone in my grade. what makes this situation even better, my other guy friend, S, thinks that i like B and knows that B likes me and he tells me that we (B and me) should go out. when i told him i don't like B, S got really mad at me and now he wont talk to me. So C, B, and S are all really mad, and i doubt they will even talk to me on monday. what do i do?!?!?
Write each of them an email telling them you are sorry you didn't express yourself better. That you like them very much as friends but right now that is far as you can say. Say that it means a lot that they like you.
If you have your eyes on someone in a different grade you might mention that you are attracted to someone in a different grade and want to remain free in case something develops there.
Good luck! George
-- from George
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