I like her but not sure if she likes me back
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
Well, I've written you guys like twice but this time I'm older and have more of a confidence within me. So I have a situation with this girl I like
Well, its this girl I sit next to in class, sometimes I go talk to her and sometimes other guys be talkin to her so I let it be. One day I asked her "what did she like in a guy" she was like someone who stands out in a crowd. Thats far from me.
I think she knows I like her but she looks at me as a friend. How can I get her to think of me as MORE than that
Since she is already a friend, I won't do more than to briefly mention what makes a good relationship: communication, compassion, and affection. Communication is sharing information, compassion is sharing feelings, and affection is being nice (compliments, little presents, etc.)
To go from a friendly relationship to more than friends is not as easy. Some things to try are flirting, being well groomed, work out, dress well, be smart and informed, and be popular. Most of these are not too hard to do, but some are more difficult like "be popular."
Actually being popular isn't too hard to describe... do the above things and also smile at everyone you see, say hi to as many people as you can, be involved in sports or committees or politics. You'd be surprised at how many people go through day after day without anyone saying hi or smiling at them... you could be the one to change that.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com