i want my ex back
Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
i have know for a long time that i still my ex but never told. the problem is i have been see some one and had a unplaned kids with this g/f but the thing is i broke up with before i know she was have the child.
i told my i am still very much in love with her and i see it in her eyes that she feel the same way she has not told me face to face but she did email me and text that she did not have the same feelings should i just try and let it go and just see our kids i should i keep trying to win her back
My advice is to drop your efforts to win her back directly.
Instead, see the kids, be nice to her and see what develops.
Remember three important aspects of a good relationship: communications (sharing information), compassion (sharing feelings), and affection (tell her you like her, that she looks good, little presents, etc)
Try the laid back approach while working to rebuild a good relationship.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com