Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
There is a girl in my Science class, and i have a crush on her. i sit next to her but im to shy to talk to her or anything.I want to start talking to her and get to know her better, but she has a boyfriend. What should i do?
Since she has a boyfriend, you must want to become her friend.
To make a friend, be a friend. Learn how to communicate with her in a friendly way. By learning this it will make you less shy will others.
When you see her, look her straight in the eyes, say in a clear voice "Hi" plus her name, and give her a big smile. People like smiles and they like for someone to say hi to them. She will say hi to you and you can ask how she is doing. Once she replies say "great" and that's enough. Do this whenever you can and try to vary the question you ask her. Like "homework was tough, don't you think?" Practice some of this at home in front of a mirror.
Remember to always smile whenever it seems right. Even after you make a mistake (which we all do.) She will appreciate your ability to relax under pressure.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com