Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
There's this girl I know and really like. We've known eachother for a few years. We talk a lot, especially on MSN, cause it's a lot easier for me to talk on msn than in real life. She talks to me like I'm her friend, we talk about a lot of personal stuff and wuts goin on in our lives. We both got to Church together on Sunday's and Friday's sometimes spending whole days together. When we chat on MSN she sends me a lot of hearts but I don't know if shes jus being frendly. I also flirt a bit but I don't kno if she realizes if I am, cause I usually jus comment on her pics saying that they r nice and stuff, and she says the same things back to me. She is a year older than me tho thats wuts giving me doubts... I am 13 & she is 14. She used to hav a boyfrend but dumped him a while ago. You probably know where all of this is going, I know you ppl arent like pyschic and stuff, but just knowing wut I've told you, would u say she likes me like I like her, or is she just a friend? Please let me know, I am willing to hav my heart broken to find out. Plz help me. Thank you so much.
Here's a good way to start this conversation with her.
Tell her you are "starting to have feelings" for her. Wait and see what she says. If she isn't ready to answer, tell her you will ask her again soon. And then ask her the very next day because she will definitely be thinking about it.
Hopefully she will say she has feelings for you too and then you can start getting ready to go out together. In fact, you could ask her right away.
If she says she only has feelings as a friend make sure she knows that you understand and you want to continue to be her friend.
Hope this works out for you! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com