Does she like me as more than friends?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
I have known a girl in my neighbourhood for a while. We have been friends for a while and have gone through some rough, rocky times... but have pulled though and have remained friends. Over the last week I have helped her thought a rough time with another guy... and now we have been talking alot. She seems to have been flirting with me at school... holding eye contact with me at times (her eyes seem to sparkle too), she has had more physical contact with me (touching the arm... play fighting with me). Not only that, she smile and is happy around me. I had liked her before, but somethings came up and I decided to drop those feelings. Now I don't know what to think... help please?
PS: I have started flirting with her more often and she seems to be responding. It's the little things.
Am I that blind.
It isn't clear whether you still like her or not.
If you still like her then keep doing what you are doing and things will go fine. If you don't already talk on the phone then start doing so and use the Internet too.
If you don't like her, stop flirting with her and tell her that you like her as a friend but nothing more. Do this gently since you still want to be her friend.
Good luck! George
p.s. yes she likes you more than friends.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com