think she ll come back?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
my gf told me this and i m confused about what she meant, b/c we hardly see each other and hardly get to talk b/c her mom wont let her talk on the phone. well anywas she said, "idk what i want right now, i dont really want a really serious relationship right now, i really like u and u know that but i dont want 2 get 2 serious 2 soon. i wanna date u but not 2 seriously." followed by no, im not tryin 2 break up, i just dont want 2 get 2 the point 2 where if we did ever break up, or somethin, we wouldnt still b friends, and since i m really good friends w/ most of my ex's i told her that wouldnt b a problem, and she seemed happy about that. i told her i would give her space if thats what she really thought she needed, and she said dont think i wanna break up w/u or anything like that, cuz i dont, i just need a little space right now. but idk if she ll come back to me. we live about 20 min apart but i can drive so its not a problem plus its out in the country so everythings far apart anyways. i know she told me she ddint wanna break up and get to serious, but what does that mean when her mom doesnt let us talk, and sometimes lets us hang out together on the weekends, idk how she can need space when she already has plenty of it. oh and i usually try to come to her church on the weekdays to she her, and she pretty much ignored me all that night is how all this got started. i told her i love her, even though we hadnt been datin but for 3 months. u think that has somethin to do w/gettin to serious? and do u think that she ll come back to me or decide she doesnt want a boyfriend anymore? thanks. sorry it was so long
I really don't know what she is going to do and maybe she doesn't either.
You should try to stay as close as you can since you have very little opportunity to get together.
Make sure you contact her for 15 min every week just to say hello and ask how she is doing.
I hope she she will come back to you! George
-- from George
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