What should I do?
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
It was about 10 months ago I joined a new team in work. I was the new boy and didn’.t know anyone. I was given a seat at the back of the office next to this cool chick. She had a swagger about herself was a real free spirit. I could tell that she was one of them confident girls who had obviously broken a few hearts in her time. Normally, I’.d stay away from these kind of girls but this one was different. We hit it off immediately, and made each other laugh at the slightest little thing. We shared the same sense of humor and loved the same things. I thought we were made for each other as we became inseparable. In fact I know she couldn’.t cope without me. I practically ran her life in work and made sure she got through the day without any stress. I think she had a life outside of work, but I never let my thoughts go that far. She mentioned some dude called Paul or Peter or John but I pretended that I hadn’.t heard what she was saying. We had planned to spend the rest of our working lives clinging to each other and entertaining one another until we ran out of things to laugh about. But recently my life has been turned upside down. I’.ve got a new job that I didn’.t really want and now they tell me I might have to work in another building. I thought she was “.the one”.. I’.m not ready to just leave this person and move somewhere else. I guess I need some advice on what I should do. I can’.t just abandon her. My heart is aching and I’.m confused about my feelings. She is the girl of my dreams. Please help.
You haven't mentioned whether you have dated her or not.
Seems clear that since she is the girl of your dreams, you should be asking her out and also paying attention to whether she has a boyfriend.
Don't leave this to a worktime relationship if you care about her. Find out if she wants to date and if so go for it.
You need to be more aggressive! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com