Boyfriend/Bestfriend and Girl/Bestfriend.
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
My bestfriend and this one girl have been going out for about 6 months now. I've gotten to know the girl quite well because all three of us hang out all the time. Lately I have been with her a lot- When my bestfriend isnt there. I've been at her house for at least 3 hours the last 5 days. I even spent the night one of the days. I've just begun to see that I think im falling for her. I noticed a spark between us when we seen eachother. The other day she told me that I would be a great dad. Feeling the heat of the moment, I told her that If i had to pick any girl, right now, to spend the rest of my life with, I would choose her. She giggled and thought that was cute. I don't want to lose a friendship. What should I do?
Your problem isn't that unusual.
You are falling for your best friend's girlfriend.
The answer is quite simple.... STOP FALLING FOR HER!!
If this means staying away from her then you'll have to do that.
Otherwise you'll end up with two broken friendships... the one you have with your bestfriend and the one you have with his girlfriend.
You shouldn't think there is any way around this. Just do it.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com