Does she like me or is she just being nice.
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Okay at school there is girl that is very friendly to everyone she is the one i like and im woudering if she feels the same towards me. In school we first started to get near each other in p.e since i knew one of her guy friends she was then close to me giving high fives. One time she was talking to me and she put both her hands on my shoulder one hand on one side and one on the other then she was talking to me and she was looking deeply into my eyes as if she wanted to kiss me. Durning the hallway one day she taped me on the arm when we walked passed each other. I ve notice once that she was starting at me and gradually wanting hugs for no reason however she hugs every guy friend she knows and gives them high fives so this makes me feel like i m just every other guy. But one day after an assembly she walked towards my hang out spot which she never does and taps me gently behind me. She name calls me such as bad words when i don't do something she asks me too but she is just playing. Now since i rejected her 2 hugs she now talks to some other guy in my p.e class and seems to not give me attention like she use to such as when i was sitting on the floor and she was siting on the chair she invited me to sit next to her but i rejected her, she was also talking to her cousin about me and when she compliments me on somehting i m wearing she says thats nice and pushs me and tells me that she cannot talk to me right now cause she is jealous. She thinks the way i say stuff sometimes is cute i don't understand. Recently i ve notice that she doesn't give me the attention she use too. So can you please answer my question i really need to know am i just another face in the crowd to her or am i someone special to her. I really like her but i m too scared to get hugs from her that is why i reject her hugs.
The first thing you need to do is to start accepting her hugs.
Hugging is a perfectly normal part of boy/girl relationships and you should be happy that she wants to include you. Especially because you like her too.
Don't worry whether you are just a face in the crowd. Maybe you are and maybe you aren't. But if you continue to refuse hugs and sharing chairs you probably will become a face in the crowd.
Step up to the plate! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com