What should I do?
Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
Ok. Meet this beyond wonderful man, too-good-to-be-true online. Meet in person and it was great, met two other times with communication problems in the middle. HUGE communication problems, but I think it's all because when we first met in person. I was afraid by saying the wrong things, because he told me that he blew off the other women he met prior because of things they said. So instead of being myself, I tried to
be something I am not mixed with someone I am. Needless to say, it screwed up, I screwed it up.
So, he told me to not contact him anymore a few weeks ago. So this am I woke up (really woke up----FINALLY) and decided
to forget since he doesn't want me. Well, through undirect
communication today, he appears to feel the same way I do. I want him back and I adore him and I want him in my life. So, what do I do? Do I forget? Do I directly contact him?
Do I just wait patiently and see what happens? This man is really beyond belief, and the way I like him is beyond anything I have experienced before. Please give any advice,
as I am in some wild distored confusion state which is leaded by my heart with no logic present..
You have probably done what you want to do by the time you receive this reply.
My advice is to take it slow. Give him a call and tell him you were just wondering how he was doing. This will give him an opening to start things up again.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com