4 weeks...now what????
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
me and this boy we'll call J-Rich have been talking for about 4 weeks now.We spend Saturday nights together.We kiss & he always kisses me first.In school we walk together when we see each other.When he first gave me his number @ school I was already talking to someone else so I waited about 1 1/2 weeks before I called him.And since then,me and him have talked on the phone every night for the past 4 weeks...until now!!!I have only called him twice this week because I feel that if he really wanna talk tome he'd call and also in school when I'm not with him he's always with another girl.So really I want to know how do I ask him what me and him are doing....and what will happen in the future??He's easy to talk to but i'm not an agrressive person.I also want to know if whether or not I have the place to be mad if I see him with another girl-hugging-never KISSING!!!!I
Yes, you need to have a long talk with him.
Explain to him how confused you are and upset by the way he is treating you. Don't be aggressive, just be calm and reasonable when asking him. You are more likely to get an honest answer out of him by being low key.
You should be concerned about him hugging another girl. Ask him if there is any special feelings when he does it or is she just a friend. Hopefully he will be honest enough to answer your question.
Good luck! George
-- from George
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