should i continue or not?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
ok well this girl i like, we havnt really went out or anythng. but i told her i like her and even wrote her a poem. but she doesnt like me back. now she doesnt tlk 2 me. she says hi only when i do. her friend said she has a boyfriend but i not too sure i believe that. anyway, this happened like 3-4 weeks ago and i still cant get ova it. i guess i really like her and feel like not givin up on her, even if she has a boyfriend or not. but now im not too sure. im always thinkin of her and sayin hi when i get the chance, but i dont know if i should continue. is it worth it? should i just give or what? wat i should do? thnx in advance
Keep saying hi to her so you keep contact.
Too bad she didn't react better, but at least you tried with her and you can feel good about that.
While you are still thinking about her and saying hi to her pick out three or four other girls that are attractive to you and start saying hi to them too. This will reduce your nervousness about the first girl and will also let her know that she isn't the only one. And, who knows, one of the other girls may like you and you will have somebody to hang out with.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com