what to do about his past

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
pleas help me!!!!!!!! my boyfriend has had sex with 4 other girls before he even met me he also had done very heavy drugs and now still has cravings for meth. we are talking very seriously about getting married but thinking about his past hurts me soooo bad. i want to be with him mor that anything in my life i just dont no what to do. please help me. thanks so much.

RomanceClass.com Advice
You can't do anything about his past except get over it.

Just think, it could be YOU who had this sexual experience and it could be HE who is worried about it. In reality it is of no concern. What matters is the present and future.

Drugs, however, is a serious matter and you should not think about getting married until he has proven that he can do without for a year. If he truly cares about you it will be easier for him to do without drugs.

Good luck! George

-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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