I want my ex back?
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
Hey me and this girl had been dating off and on for almost 3 years she is with another guy right now but we still talk. We have been broken up before but it never lasted long right now its around a month but she has already called me crying wondering if we will ever get back together but then would change her mind because she feels she needs to make it work with this guy. Everytime we talk even when were fighting she always says that she loves me so much more than him but she feels he wont hurt her and that im not trustworthy and she doesnt know if she ever could again. I dont want to be mean but the guy she is with is alot older and is just a bad guy. I try to stay her fried and we talk every few days and sometimes i think shes giving me signals that she doesnt want to be with him but with me and then other times we fight and she reminds me why she cant be with me. I want you to understand I love this girl more than anything in the world and she always says she shouldnt be talking to me because her b/f wouldnt approve and its dishonest. So I try to never call her but she will call me sooner or later sometimes we will have a good conversation sometimes not. What do I do?
I think she wants to be back with you again.
She is waiting for you to make the move. All you need to do is to tell her you love her and want her back and that you will never hurt her again.
That's what she wants to hear and she will leave this other guy.
Give it a try ! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com