Whats better?

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Now ive got my own question.

If youve loved someone. Watched them walk out a door away from you because you thought they would be overloaded if you told them.

And now...you think you might have to pull out all the stops...do or die...perhaps.

If youve gone through a lot with them and for them and you thought that the only way to get them was to do something totally against your character. Something that might rip you out of your head while doing it. Something that might get you totally rejected. But you thought it might be the only way...to get her...and you feel that if you dont you might have missed your best chance...do you take it? Especially when playing fair has costed you everything once b4.

its not something to do with pride. Its about passion.Its about doing something though that isnt quite right.Something that stopped you before.But something you know that might be the answer all along...or it could be your downfall with her...

Whats better? To try? Or to wonder if that was your best shot? Cause im tired of waiting for things to work out.And im tired of watching others succeed without trying and im tired of so much.Worst of all im tired in my heart. Wondering how much its got to take to get her.
I know that my chances are better and yet worse this time around. Better in some ways...Worse in others.

You can never see the future.Or else there would be no doubt. If you think that if you give it just MAYBE a LITTLE time she might come to you...or you COULD LOSE her forever....but making the move now might cost you her.But waiting and playing fair might cost you the same.

Whats better? Going down swinging wondering if it just was too soon.Or if you dont make a move...and wonder if you ever had a chance...This will be a first for me...I just dont know if i can go through with it. I stopped myself last time. It hurt so bad to restrain myself.But im hurting now that ive seen the result.

Whats better?

RomanceClass.com Advice
Give it your all.

You don't want to spend time wondering what would have happened if you had only tried. She should respect you for going all out for her. It takes guts to do it and everyone appreciates guts.

You run the risk of popping up or a long ball caught in the outfield, but at least you tried.

If you are afraid to go for the glory you run the risk of doing that the rest of your life and missing out on many opportunities.

Good luck! George

-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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