Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
So i wrote earlier and got a response. thanks but im still confused. my ex is now hanging out with a friend that she hasnt hung out with in a year and 2 months, since me and her have been dating. and now that she broke up with me, she has been hbanging out with this girl and i think its her way of forgetting about me. She tells me shes confused of what she wants and i heard and i know she said it for a fact that. I dont really think i want to be in a relationship anymore, i think ive just changed, i dont see him the same anymore...thats her saying that, so that obvisouly breaks my heart, and then now i find out she is going to a halloween costume party, and she never wanted to go out with me to any parties or anything and shes not a big drinker but i kno she will be pressured and then hook up with someone, she was a very flirty girl. but she changed that for me and i love her, we went on a trip all the way to disney and she loved me and on september 7 to the 13th she was in love with me but then on the 15th she broke up with me.. i dont know what to do, i want to get back together with her and i want to be the one she hooks up with not anyone else, this is the way she handles things to try and forget, she did it before she went on two dates, nothing happend and then she got back with me, but in a party situation i dont want her to make the mistake of hooking up with another guy, because then itll kill me and ill know i obvisouly didnt mean much to her if only a month later shes back out there... i need help please give me advice thanks
You better be ready for anything.
Life changes, people change. You can't be sure of what will happen.
Many, many people get lucky and find their soul-mate and live happily ever after, but until that happens don't count on things to work out the way you hope.
Try to go to the Halloween party if you can and try to be the one she hooks up with. Hopefully it will work out that way.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com