She and her Ex, Kissing on the Bus?
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
Me and my girlfriend are still in high school but she rides the bus with her ex boyfriend which she says she doesn't like. I can't stand it. How would I know if she is talking to him or kissing him on the bus when I'm not around?
This comes down to trust. Trust is the MOST important thing in any relationship. You can never hide your girlfriend/boyfriend from all temptations in life. So either you trust them, or you don't.
She says she doesn't like her ex boyfriend. So believe her. Find ways to make your own relationship truly happy and fun, and talk to her all the time. It's that communication and honesty which make a relationship strong.
If you wonder about it, ask her. Say you want to know the truth. If she says she's not doing anything, then believe in her. If you keep doubting her because *you* are insecure, then she's going to get tired of the meaningless jealousy. People want a relationship to be a place of love and comfort, not somewhere that they're always being accused of things they didn't do!
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com