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Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
I work with this you who is younger than I and we have travled for work together and I have developed feelings for him. I am receiving mixed signals from him, when we are in a group we flirt and talk freely but when alone we are tense and on guard as to what we say and do. It is obvious there is something we are both not saying to each other. I catch him staring at me often but when he is cought he quickly turns away. He knows his way around the area we are traveling in and he is now making wrong turns while driving and is distracted even at work. I have heard him say "What is wrong with me I can't seen to get anything wright lately" I did ask him well what is weighing so heavely on your mind and he replied with you realy don't want to know. He goes out of his way to make sure I am ok and that we are working on the same projects together. I am so confused can you please shine some light on this situation. What should I do? Advice
Since you believe there is something between you two, do something.

Ask him out for dinner and steer the conversation to how you feel about each other. If he feels the way you do things should go well.

Communications, sharing feelings, and affection will do the trick!

Good luck. George

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