What's wrong with him...Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
I had started seeing my cousins friend...and my cousin was not happy about it, he didn't think his friend was good for me. The guy i was seeing decided that he didn't want to ruin his friendship with my cousin even though he really did like me. And, he also kept saying that he wasn't ready for a relationship after long ones that went bad, and admitted to being non-commital.
Well, because i liked him, i invited him over one night, because i knew we would fool around. Right as we were about to have sex, he completely stopped and felt it was wrong, and brought up my cousin, and he kept saying that he needed time to figure things out.
And then he was shaking alittle and said that he might not be ready for intimacy.
I just don't understand what happened to him.....
We don't know what all is going on in his life.
So it could be any number of things that affected him.
One thing you can be sure of is that he respects your cousin's friendship and doesn't want to jeopardize it.
Just chalk it up to an odd experience.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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